What's Your Emotional GPS in Love?
This isn't just a quiz, it’s a mirror...
Your Glow Begins With You
Sis, you’ve been carrying “I’m okay” like it’s armor.
Smiling when you’re aching.
Shrinking yourself in rooms that don’t see you.
Holding it down in relationships that hold you back.
Performing strength when you are tired—just to be loved.
You’ve mastered the mask.
But behind it?
There’s grief.
There’s rage.
There’s brilliance dimmed to make others comfortable.
There’s a Black woman tired of pretending she’s fine.
Hear me: this isn’t weakness.
This is wisdom.
You’ve survived what would’ve broken most.
But survival isn’t our whole story.
Now it’s time to stop performing strength and start reclaiming softness.
To stop shrinking and start expanding into your full self.
✨ You are not alone.
Every ache you’ve carried can be transformed into power, peace, and joy.
Your first step is understanding yourself—naming what you’ve been carrying, and honoring what you need.
Take the free quiz below. ⬇
Instructions: Answer honestly. There are no wrong answers. Pick the option that feels most like you in your relationships or with yourself. Tally your answers to determine your results. This quiz is designed to reflect your emotional patterns, not to judge them.

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